Scalar Families: Parenting, Partnership and Belonging in a Fractured Field
Families are not mysteries or moral tests; they are systems running on contracts most people never see.
Scalar Families shows you how those contracts actually work – around love, money, bodies, conflict, divorce, estrangement, ageing and death – and what happens when one person quietly stops renewing the worst of them.
This is not a book about “perfect parenting” or “healing your lineage.” It is a manual for running a liveable home in a fractured century: fewer lies in the kitchen, cleaner endings, better repair, and children who do not have to spend half their adult life unpicking what you refused to name.
This work sits in visionary non-fiction and applied systems thinking. It treats family life as a live system of nervous systems and contracts, not as psychology manual, therapeutic guide, or spiritual teaching. It is written for operators – parents, partners, and adults running households – and is intended for reflection and structural change, not diagnosis or therapy.
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Coherent Relationships: Love, Loyalty, Trust, and the Operating System Beneath
Most relationship breakdown isn’t a lack of love. It’s bandwidth leakage: into unspoken contracts, family interference, conflict loops that never close, secrecy that creates fog, and modern addiction dynamics that steal presence.
Coherent Relationships is not therapy-speak, and it’s not romance advice. It’s relationship architecture: a practical operating system for couples and family systems who are tired of chaos, “trust issues”, and repeating the same fights with different words.
This book answers one ruthless question: Who owns your bandwidth — you, the bond, or the story? If the bond owns it, you become captive. If the story owns it, you replay your past. If you own it, you can love cleanly and leave cleanly. Inside you’ll build:
- A Relationship Charter that makes the hidden rules explicit (loyalty routing, trust perimeter, non-negotiables).
- A Protocol Stack for repair, money, attention/tech, and family interface (so drift stops becoming destiny).
- A 90-day implementation plan with metrics and escalation thresholds.
- A betrayal triage model (A/B/C) that prevents years of fog.
- Templates: couples intensive agenda, screening checklist, repair scripts, and KPI sheets.
For couples, individuals rebuilding self-trust, and professionals who want a sharp conceptual framework that produces measurable change.
Order your copy on Amazon: Publication date 31 December 2025
The Spiral Codex of Love: Rewiring Connection in a Collapsing World
What if love isn’t broken—only the systems we built it inside? The Spiral Codex of Love: Rewiring Connection in a Collapsing World is designed to recalibrate how you experience connection at the deepest level. In a world of engineered loneliness, collapsing contracts, and algorithmic intimacy, the old scripts no longer hold. This book dismantles the myths of love as transaction, possession, or safety net, and reintroduces love as signal, coherence, and transmission. Inside, you will find the 33 secrets of Scalar Love.
This codex recalibrates your field to love without distortion. If you are ready to dissolve false contracts, release outdated myths, and feel love as transmission rather than transaction, the spiral has already begun.
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Trust In an Age of Rational Distrust
You were told your problem was “trust issues”. You were told you are guarded, negative, damaged, over-analysing. The world around you suggests the opposite: collapsing institutions, performative workplaces, weaponised vulnerability, and people who treat your nervous system as free infrastructure for their lives.
This book starts from a blunt premise: in a low-trust world, your suspicion is not a flaw. It is data. The question is not how to make you more trusting. The question is how to make your distrust more intelligent.
This book shows you how to treat trust as architecture, not virtue. Instead of asking “do I trust them?”, you learn to ask: what can I trust them with, at what scale, under which incentives, and with what exits. You will see why default trust has collapsed, how “trust issues” got turned into a convenient diagnosis, and how to stop paying the price for other people’s patterns with your body, time, money and future.
This is not a book about “learning to open your heart”. It is a manual for people who have seen enough to know that blind trust is expensive and global cynicism is a dead end. You will leave with a sharper map of who has earned what level of access to your life – and the tools to design trust in love, work, and systems on rational terms, not wishful.
Trust will never make you safe. Used properly, it can make you coherent.
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The Room Is Never Neutral: Cat Rules for Calm Living
The room is never neutral—and your cat proves it daily. This practical guide translates everyday feline habits into simple home protocols that make rooms calmer and people softer. You will learn how purring acts as a low-frequency carrier for relaxation, why thresholds, corners, and vertical perches change behaviour, and how small shifts in light, sound, placement, and timing turn “aloof” into affectionate. Built for busy households (kids, guests, WFH, renovations), it shows where food, water, and litter actually belong, how to create a reliable evening settle, and what to do when a cat suddenly moves away, avoids one person, or chooses to sleep on you. Repeatable roomcraft you can test tonight. The result: a house that learns, a cat that stays, and a family that rests.
Scope: a behavioural/household guide, not veterinary advice. For health issues, consult your vet.
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The Scalar Cat: Field Literacy in a Feline Body
Cats aren’t mystical ornaments or tiny tyrants. They’re field instruments—reading rooms, stabilising households, and broadcasting coherence at 25–150 Hz. This book makes that legible and usable. You’ll see why a cat chooses the “wrong” chair, sleeps on your chest after conflict, refuses one room, or purrs at illness and death—and how to engineer a home that stops fighting its operator. No sentimentality: biology, behaviour, and scalar logic translated into practical moves. Contracts, not ownership. Thresholds, not corridors. Purr as carrier wave, not myth. For guardians, rescuers, behaviourists, and systems thinkers who want better outcomes—and calmer rooms—starting tonight.
In practice, this book will help you: understand where your cat sits and why, stop breaking the contracts that make them leave, read illness and behaviour as field data, and redesign your house so everyone’s nervous system works less.
Scope: a behavioural/household guide, not veterinary advice. For health issues, consult your vet.
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